October, 2014
SAY “YES” TO NO!
There’s an upside to saying “No”! Saying “no” to those who are not saying “yes” to your expression of your true self creates healthy boundaries so you can say “yes” to people and things that support your unique YOU!
Creating clear communications expressing your story of integrities, values, self worth, personal and professional joy means saying “no” to those who are not aligned and could be simply “taking” from you rather than co-creating with you. Healthy “YES” boundaries are what make you “more”.
My story succeeds by developing strong “no” communication “muscles” which get exercised often when sorting choices for associations, assignments, friends. Saying “no” to the spaces, places and people that just do not feel correct or do not support my path or joy, really does give me the power to create more positive choice for my life, abundance, relationships, well-being.
Everything is made of energy or “chi”…so are your strong boundaries both emotional and physical. An example of some physical natural boundaries in your office space or home comes from feng shui (black hat) with the definite boundaries of all the 9 life spaces that make up your space from career to abundance and fame! The career life space always is in your entrance way and is has strong borders with the knowledge space and the helpful people spaces or guas. When one gua or lifespace does not cross over into the other, they live in harmony due to their natural strong boundaries!
Saying “NO” can be very positive when you do it with clear intention of honoring the value of who you are and what you do. Raise your awareness of what YOU love, what YOU value, then simply make a value check list with the things, people, places, that make you uncomfortable and are asking for your attention. Finding alignment first, then deciding to say yea or “no way” is a must!
Be brave, walk away from the “no’s”; the things that make you less…get into your “more” story, by granting yourself strong boundaries and the permission to say a big positive “yes” to “no”!
I’m Paula Brown; Visual Scribe / Feng Shui practitioner / Author / Animal Communicator. I am a visual storyteller showing you YOUR STORY, YOUR ENERGY, YOUR WELL-BEING in both business and home. My site is: www.chilightful.com and you can find and “like” my facebook page at: www.facebook.com/ChiLightful
